Is Jennifer Lopez heading Bollywood?

After a string of foreign female hotties showing up in the entertainment industry in India on various occasions, the name of Jennifer Lopez is now doing the rounds of the same. It is being reported that the sexy superstar will soon be seen in Bollywood dancing to the desi tunes.

But the question is when is that going to materialize. If we go by the reports of Jennifer Lopez herself, then her coming to India is not a possibility at least in the near future. There are mainly professional reasons behind this. The most prominent being her very own album.

Jennifer Lopez has come out with her own album titled Love. This is the first ever album for Jenni in as many as four years. Obviously, she is giving personal attention to see to it that the promotion of the album is going on the right track. She is currently too busy to think of any other engagement other than the promotion of Love.

She has however said that if ever she thinks of coming to India, she would make it a grand announcement. But before that happens, she wants her fans from India to listen to her brand new album.

The Do's And Don't Of A Relationship

There is no such a fixed formula for having a successful relationship. Had it been such, then we would never have heard the words like, 'breakup', 'ex-boyfriend', 'ex-girlfriend' or 'divorce', don't we? I do not believe in things such that if there are certain things to do knowingly or unknowingly. The reason is pretty simple. All humans are different and each one has the right to be unique.
If I give you something called a 'formula', then it would only be through my eyes, it would only be through my experiences. Even you and me are different and so are different our styles of looking at children and handling them. So, it would be pretty difficult to say what exactly to do and what not to do. Still as you say there are some factors which are important for all the couples - dating couples of course, irrespective of where they live or from what background they come from.
For example, the trust unto each other. Trust is the most important binding factor that can keep a guy and a girl together for the whole of their lives. Secondly, as only trust would not help, so also there should be love for each other too. Understanding shown towards each other can do wonders. Caring is also a key factor. How much you care for your partner you have to show that through words and actions. If these small factors are taken into consideration, they I think, you have found the formula for a successful relationship. What I tried to tell you are all the positives. If you think they are worth it, then just spread the word.

Successful Marriage

There is no such a fixed formula for having a successful marriage. Had it been such, then we would never have heard the word 'divorce', don't we? Even if we say that marriages are made in heaven and performed on earth, I still do not believe in that. The reason is pretty simple. Heaven is an abode of the good god above and god is peace, god is love. Then how can the same god give sorrow and unhappiness for some couples? It is not the god who is at fault, but it is we who do not perform our duties well. Then the results are there for all of us to see. Marriages do break up. Still as you say there are some factors which are important for all the couples irrespective of where they live or from what background they come from. For example, the trust unto each other. Trust is the most important binding factor that can keep a man and a woman together for the whole of their lives. Secondly, as only trust would not help, so also there should be love for each other too. And what you have pointed out correctly speaks volumes. Understanding shown towards each other can do wonders. Caring is also a key factor. How much you care for your partner you have to show that through words and actions. If these small factors are taken into consideration, they I think, you have found the formula for a successful marriage. Then spread the word.

Love At First Sight - Right Or Wrong?

There are many facets to love. Some term love as God while some term love as illusion. This means that God is an illusion. Now what is this link? I remember to have read that love is an illusion many a time and also to have read that love is god. But that is really confusing. But I am a firm beliver that there can be no love at first sight. I really doubt who coined this phrase - 'love at first site'. When you see a person of the opposite sex what you see is only the physic. You cannot see the mind of the person. And for love to take place, the minds need to get involved. There cannot be only a physical intimacy which you can term it as love. That would be lust. And if god is love then where is the place for lust? Secondly, as long as you don't know the mind of a person how can you love him/her. It is important that you know the person, try to understand him/her and then only proceed. Moreover, to get into love and to remain their takes time. You need to win the confidence of the opposite person and all these activities need time. This cannot happen overnight. And why overnight, in just a moment? My god! I, personally find this really surprising. Such love is bound to break sooner - i hope this comes false. But I have seen some couples who have fallen in love at first sight - in a moment's time and have broken up faster still. Then what you get is only frustration and depression. Is this the love that anyone seeks?

Being In Love

There are many facets to love and love has many dimensions. Many of us here might have been in love at one point of time. There might be still some who are still in love. I will completely agree with you if you say that love is a strange thing. Strange as it is, it is simple as well. Love does not need anything. There are no such hard and fast rules to tell about if you are in love or not. And I can say from my experience that there are some things that you perceive or feel like doing (almost for nothing). The world suddenly seems to be a beautiful place to live in. You just cannot point fingers to anything in this world. You feel that there is all goodliness in this world and nothing bad can happen. You feel that the world has a lot to offer and your mindset at such times is strange too. The ghost of sacrific is mounted on your back ages ago and you become a non-materialistic entity. I would love to talk about these things in greater details still, but what I have experienced is that nothing is like what you or me feel when in love with someone. All comes back to square one when the building of love comes crashing down. The time after that seems very cruel. The world seems to come to eat us. Nevertheless, that was of no use as one has to live with the same hurt deep inside. The philosophy to see the love and world changes and we - at least I - come to the conclusion that, love is nothing but just an illusion, though love has been compared with god. So, love is god or love is an illusion - the argument simply continues.